Have you ever wondered about the pain that you have endured in your life? Why do some people suffer more than others? Many people stumble blindly through their life without a glance at anyone else’s pain or sorrow. They are self consumed and blinded with only their own pain. Other people seem to feed off of the pain of others almost like it makes them feel fulfilled, important, or more significant than the one who is actually experiencing the pain. Some persons are so frozen by their pain that they are immobilized and unable to feel anything at all. They just seem to exist – zombies filled with pain roaming the landscape of our world.
I have come to realize that pain is a necessary part of life. How will you ever know what is good or right in our world if we do not have some painful experiences to remind us of the differences. Life is a paradox of good and evil. Just like Ying and Yang, you cannot have one without the other. This is not to simplify the pain that any one person feels, instead it is to remind us that just like love, pain is a universal gift.
Pain allows us to be human. It teaches us lessons about life that we would not have learned without feeling some kind of deep pathos from the whole experience. Pain allows us the chance to screw up and start over again. This ache becomes the clarity within our souls that feeds each breath we take. Through pain we become stronger.
The lotus is not present where there is no mud. Be glad for your anguish because it has allowed you to blossom into the beautiful person you are… right now, reading this…
(Image from the Buddha Groove Facebook page on 7/21/14)