#WQWWC – Writers Quote Wednesday Writing Challenge – “Innocence”

Hey, EVERYBODY! It’s that time again! Time to join in the “Writers Quote Wednesday Writing Challenge,” co-sponsored with Ronovan Hester of Ronovan Writes, right here on silverthreading.com and myself, Silver Threading!

Please use #WQWWC on your post so when we share to Twitter we can retweet you and spread the inspiration.

Welcome!  This is an open invitation to join in on our blogging event called the “Writers Quote Wednesday Writing Challenge!

Ronovan and I are really enjoying all the creativity that has been blossoming from this challenge. There have been fascinating science fiction stories, poetry, and even a song or two!

BUT WAIT!

If you like the OLD Writers Quote Wednesday where you selected a quote and talked about the author of the quote you CAN still do that. The quotes are a pathway to find inspiration in your writing. You can write whatever you would like as long as you include your quote with your piece. You can write poetry, music, share songs, write flash fiction…

This is your chance to highlight your favorite author’s quotes that give inspiration to you as a writer. Do you feel like your writing is getting stale? Are you looking for inspiration to keep writing? Then you have come to the right spot!

Each week we will include a theme for anyone who needs additional inspiration. You don’t have to follow our theme if you don’t want to. It is optional.

You have from this Wednesday until the following Tuesday to participate!

In fact, Ronovan and I alternate each week with a themed prompt post written on Silver Threading. This will give you a different perspective weekly to keep your inspiration flowing.

Here is the link to last week’s post from Ronovan.

IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR BLOGS TO FOLLOW… I have included the entries from last week with the theme of “Passion” (Please click on their name to visit their blog to read their contribution)

TWO ON A RANT

I MANIKING BLOG

JUDY E. MARTIN

ANNETTE ROCHELLE ABEN

THE WRITER NEXT DOOR

HADDON MUSINGS

ALWAYS A WRITER

RAMBLINGS OF A WRITER

ZEN & PI

POSTCARDS FROM A PIGEON

GREAT JOB EVERYBODY!

This is my week, and Ronovan will be back next week to share his theme with you.

THIS WEEK’S THEME IS “INNOCENCE.” (…or any form of the word)

So what do you do?

You can use FotoflexerPicmonkey, or Canva.com, or any other program that you wish to make your own images. Click the links to go to the programs.

HAVE FUN & BE BRILLIANT!


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Steve Toltz is an Austrailian novelist. Wikipedia shares:

A Fraction of the Whole, his first novel, was released in 2008 to widespread critical acclaim. It is a comic novel which tells the history of a family of Australian outcasts. The narration of the novel alternates between Jasper Dean, a philosophical, idealistic boy, who grows up throughout the novel and his father, Martin Dean, a philosopher and shut-in described at the start of the novel as “the most hated man in all of Australia”. This is in contrast with Terry Dean, Jasper’s uncle, whom Jasper describes as “the most beloved man in all of Australia”. The novel spans the entirety of Martin’s life and several years after (a range never specified in the text, but starting after World War II and ending in the early 2000s), and is set in Australia, Paris, and Thailand.

The novel has repeatedly been compared favorably to John Kennedy Toole‘s Pulitzer Prize-winning novel A Confederacy of Dunces.[1][2] A Fraction of the Whole was shortlisted for the 2008 Man Booker Prize[3] and the 2008 Guardian First Book Award.[4]

His second novel, Quicksand, was published in 2015,[5] to widespread acclaim.”

Image credit: QuoteAdicts.com

The above quote by Steve Toltz really touched a nerve in me. It was one of those nerves that I had tucked away deep, so it couldn’t rear its ugly head and pester me with petty doubts. I cage that nerve because it took away my innocence.

“The first time you glimpse the boundaries that will limit your potential is the real loss of innocence.”

Do you remember when you were a child and dreamed of becoming an astronaut or a ballet dancer? Those dreams of mine were passionate thoughts carried on candy floss fantasies that fueled my growing imagination. I wanted to write a book and be a secretary. I wanted to do big things back in those days!

I can still hear the advice from my step-mother, who was quite the independent working woman. While all my friend’s mothers stayed at home, she worked as a bookkeeper/administrative assistant to a wealthy stockbroker in downtown, Milwaukee, Wisconsin. She was an unusual woman.

When I was a teenager, she would tell me: “You’re not the smartest kid, Colleena. (She always called me Colleena). “Maybe you should find a job that you can do that doesn’t involve writing or numbers.”

That was the first time I realized that I had hit a boundary. My dreams were shattered, my innocence lost. I got B’s in school. I was the biggest nerd you ever saw and so desperately wanted to hang out with the cool kids. But that wasn’t me. Because of my step mother’s words, I thought I was dumb. I had no self-confidence and zero belief in myself.

However, I excelled in secretarial courses in high school. I typed 90+ words a minute on an IBM Selectric typewriter. (No kidding)! I even passed bookkeeping with a B. When I entered the Air Force after graduation I scored exceptionally high in administration. Yet, I chose to not believe in myself.

In my late 20’s, I went to a local community college on Edwards AFB. I started those classes with such trepidation and fear. I didn’t want my husband or my kids to watch me fail. I still did not believe in myself.

And, then it happened! It was a miracle! I still remember the elation I felt when those A’s started rolling in. I even made the Dean’s List a couple of semesters. Suddenly, it occurred to me that my step-mother had been wrong – terribly wrong. I had let the sting of her words hold me back. Those words took away my innocence.

As I look back now, I have an impressive work history. I was a bookkeeper/administrative assistant for eight years at the largest law firm in Montana. I did the books for a ranch and an oil company while at the same time I was a personal secretary to one of the wealthiest men in Montana. I worked doing taxes and payroll for an accounting firm. I worked in a hospital in the accounting department. I even got my license and passed the state boards in Arizona to sell home and auto insurance. Eventually, I went back to school and got my second Associates Degree. I got straight A’s!

Most importantly, I have accomplished the one thing I wanted to do when I was seven years old. I wrote that book! That means more to me than anything else I have accomplished.

I feel that I have regained that childlike wonder once again. I’ve opened my mind to the possibilities of “what if?” I will never allow anyone to take that innocence away again. I hope you won’t either. ❤

Thanks for stopping by. Don’t forget to share a quote about “innocence.” I can’t wait to see what you come up with!

SLIDING TOWARD THE WEEKEND!

50 thoughts on “#WQWWC – Writers Quote Wednesday Writing Challenge – “Innocence”

  1. Congratulations on accomplishing so much in your life. I enjoyed reading about your journey to re-create yourself and discover talents that I hope your step-mother was alive to see. There is nothing more satisfying than successfully completing a goal that others said you would never accomplish.

    I loved what you said about one sentence from someone older creating a barrier in your life. It is SO true! What you said about writing a book is exactly how I feel: Of all the accomplishments in my life, nothing hit me as profoundly as holding in my hand the book that I had written.

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    1. No she passed away before I could share that part of my life with her. As a teen, my dad and stepmom gave me up to the State of Wisconsin. I became a foster kid. That was fine. I did life my way and far exceeded the expectations of everyone. It is in the writing of my novel (and series) that I have finally found the true me. Not bad for 58 years old! LOL! Many people never find that joy. Thank you for your amazing support! ❤️❤️❤️

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      1. Always a pleasure to hear a writer’s success story, and the success is not in the number of books sold. The fact that you were abandoned by your parents, and that you rose above it admirably, impresses me greatly.

        This is my point of view: Writing is cheaper than psychotherapy and it works better. That, too, is how I’ve finally found the true me. 🙂

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        1. You are such a joy and I love that you totally understand my journey. Age has much to do with it… that and experience. I wish I could have started writing earlier. I feel such peace and know that my stories will fill some empty hearts. Bravo to us! It’s all in the journey! ❤

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  2. Great quote Colleen!

    Your story reminded me of similar incidents in my childhood. One when I was in middle school, I had a gym teacher who asked me to tell him a new joke every day. I can’t remember how this started, but somehow I had convinced him I was funny. After making him laugh for a few days in a row, I came home and announced to my mother that I wanted to be a comedian. She looked at me and instead of asking how I decided that, or why, she simply replied: “You’ve never made me laugh.” I was crushed, and never spoke of it again.

    It happened again when I was a teenager. I told my father I wanted to get into politics to help make the world a better place. He flatly reminded me that I was black, and a woman, so, no one would vote for me. *sigh*

    These are just two of the many times I saw my boundaries, some others were worse, some not so bad, but one thing I realized is sometimes those boundaries seem fixed but they aren’t. Their permanence is an illusion, and as soon as you realize it, they begin to shift. With a bit of hard work, they can be knocked down altogether. Sorry to ramble on your post just spoke to me 🙂

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    1. Lisa! You are simply amazing and as I have watched your writing journey over the last few years I am reminded how we all have learned to rise above our limitations. I just informed my two granddaughters, who are white, Thai, and black, oh and women, they can do anything they set their minds to! Our parents many times mean well by what they say. I am glad I had that adversity. I might not be as strong as I am today without it. There are people who just settle and let life happen to them. You and I are the kind of women that take matters into our own hands. We teach ourselves and continue to move forward in life. Keep recreating yourself. Lisa, you can do anything you set your mind to! Never let anyone hold you back! Hugs my friend! ❤

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  3. Powerful quote by Steve Toltz. I’m so sorry you went through that as a child. Sometimes parents/adults don’t realize the power of their words, especially to a child. I’m happy you decided to try and discovered your true potential. Lovely and inspiring quotes at the end. Lovely post, as usual. ❤ xx
    Here's my contribution for this week. http://wp.me/p3eYyj-1la

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  4. You are an absolute inspiration Colleen! Despite your step-mother’s harsh (and untrue) words, you still set out to achieve your goals, and look what you have done! I am so proud that you wrote the book you have always wanted to and I can’t wait to read it. Huge hugs to you my friend ❤❤

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    1. Thank you, Judy. We all have challenges in life. I figure it is how hard you fight to change and recreate yourself that matters. I am excited for my book to be born into this world. It’s happening… soon! Hugs to you! ❤

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  5. Just the other day I was listening to an old Joel Olsteen recording: removing negative labels. He spoke on just that: people telling us we are something and then we believe it. It was very powerful. And I started thinking about my past and watching people. It’s so true. If we believe what others say, we can become it. And I’ve done it too. So congratulations for realizing just how wonderful you are. None of us our the same, but that’s what makes each of us great. And I truly believe that when we become who we are supposed to be and really love ourselves–that is when the magic happens. So congrats on rediscovering that magic, and the book! That is so terrific:)

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    1. Oh, my goodness. That Joel Olsteen recording sounds great. I think true liberation comes when you blow up all those old misconceptions and strike out on your own. My husband was the first person to believe in me. That is all it took. I steered the ship in the direction I wanted to go. That is all it takes is that one person to give us the confidence to move forward. I feel that magic now… I totally get what you mean. Hugs and thanks for your sweet words! ❤

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      1. I agree-just one person can make all the difference! Thank God for him helping you see just how great you are:) Now, we can all benefit!! Carry on with your bad self girl and feel that magic!

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  6. What a great story Colleen. I wish I had faith in myself. I am just believing that I can write. People told me that even as a little kid, but I let that rejection slip in my teens define me. I was a failure in my eyes. Now I write for another blog regularly besides my writings on my own blog.

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  7. Reading this put a big smile on my face. It’s worth every effort to debunk such harsh pronunciations and rise above the challenge.You are an inspirator Colleen and welcome back to innocence 🙂

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  8. Your journey to find your creative side really resounded with me. Love your story of overcoming the negative road blocks instilled in the past. I’ve just found myself withing the past few years. The power of the image and word called to me. It’s amazing how we eventually get to where we should be. 🙂

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